The Wound is the place where light enters you

“Rather than running behind the love for others, seek love within you which will lead you to earn respect and be an inspiration for others which is more valuable than running for love behind others”

My quote simply means , if you are a boy or girl reading this you might have encountered that situations in life where you fall in love with somebody or someone and when you express your feelings to them and if they do not subscribe to your feelings when you feel disappointed this is the overall situation through which we all go in life.

But after expressing your feelings to someone if they say no to your love and then to they respect you as an individual and that too more then their choice which he or she loves if they give respect to you then my boy you have earned more than love in your life and gone ahead then love and that is respect and that is only possible if you love your self

For example : If a girl/boy does not love you but respects more then his/her life partner congrats man you are ahead of love and more then that if he/she  gets inspired from you to do anything in life then you are ahead of respect and such things are only achievable in life only when you try to run behind your self   and   that is only possible if you love your self, not others and try to become better version of your self-day by day and month by month and year by year.

If I go one step ahead of respect and say that he or she gets inspired from you in her/ his day to day life then my friend cheers you are free from the bondage of running behind the love for others

People may or may not love you but if they respect and more then that they get inspired from you that is also a great thing to be satisfied with and to cherish. We all Romeo and Juliet have complicated our lives by placing love(for others) as the highest aspiration in our life .howevere if we place our self-betterment along with love for our self as the highest ideal in life then respect, inspiration will come running behind you all though love may or may not from others.

I feel loving oneself will help you to distinguish things for you better in life and this love will help you to understand where you are born to stand in life but for that, you need patience along with self-love

I am giving you a caution that self-love should not make you greedy, narcissist by nature.
Self - love must stand on good ethical and moral grounds.